
Shining A Light On Addiction:
In the shadow of Scotland's rugged beauty lies a journey of resilience, redemption, and the glow of hope that transcends darkness.
Nera Luxury Candles isn't just about crafting exquisite scents; it's a beacon of purpose, a testament to the power of transformation, and a mission to ignite change.
My Story...
Welcome to Nera Luxury Candles, where every candle's flame echoes a tale of triumph, resilience, and the radiant glow of hope. My name is Ross, and I am the heart and soul behind this unique luxury candle business. Join me on a journey from the shadows of addiction to the illuminating light of creativity and renewal.
My story begins in the north-east of Scotland, a land known for its breath-taking landscapes and untamed spirit. However, like many journeys, mine took an unexpected turn. Throughout my teens, I turned to alcohol and other substances to cope with crippling social anxiety and other struggles with my mental health. I fell into the cycle of numbing and escaping my negative feelings and emotions, never learning to deal with my issues. By the time I had reached my early 20's, I was in a very dark place. My drug use had spiralled, trying anything and everything to escape my own head. By this time, I had started using heroin on a daily basis in an attempt to quieten my self destructive thoughts and get away from my sense of hopelessness.
For years I struggled in the firm grip of addiction. My life had been reduced to solitude, methadone scripts, overdoses and trouble with the law. I went to rehab twice here in Scotland, but both times I failed to stay drug free afterwards. I found myself at a crossroads, desperate for change. I knew I didn't want to die, but I didn't know how to live. This pivotal moment is what lead me to learning about the therapeutic haven of San Patrignano in Italy.
I first learned about the San Patrignano community through a family member who lives in Italy. After researching online, I quickly realized it was unlike any of the rehabs I had encountered in Scotland. The three - to four - year program centred around work, came at no cost, and required individuals to be substance-free and off any substitute medications before they could even be accepted as residents.
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To those unfamiliar with the world of addiction, this may seem unusual. Why consider enrolling in a long-term rehabilitation program if you've already stopped using drugs? The answer lies in understanding that addiction goes far beyond merely quitting. Getting clean is only the first step. The real challenge begins afterward - rebuilding your life, finding purpose, and healing from the trauma and damage that addiction masked, not just physically but also mentally, emotionally, and socially.
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This part of the long, gruelling struggle is the part that had knocked me down and sent me back to square one so many times before. This time though, with a goal in sight, I was more determined than ever. I eventually got myself into a stable enough condition to be accepted into the community, and on a cold, crisp December morning in 2018, a few days before my 27th birthday, I boarded a plane to Italy to start my journey at San Patrignano as a new resident.
For three and a half transformative years, San Patrignano became my refuge - a place where I could rebuild, rediscover, and reclaim my life. With over a thousand residents in the program at any one time, I was immediately immersed into a strict, structured, and demanding routine of hard work, discipline and personal development. The holistic approach to rehabilitation, vocational training and community support provided the foundation for my recovery. My time at San Patrignano not only helped me build resilience and get along with others, but taught me the importance of engaging in meaningful work and taking pride in what you do. My experience there wasn’t just about overcoming personal struggles; it was a masterclass in dedication and precision. Surrounded by artisans who poured their hearts into every creation, I absorbed the importance of attention to detail, the pursuit of excellence, and the immeasurable value of creating something extraordinary.
Now, back on Scottish soil, I bring the essence of my Italian sojourn to you through Nera Luxury Candles. In Italian, the word "Nera", is the feminine term for "Black". I chose this name for my candle company, taking inspiration from my personal journey and connection to Italy. It also represents the sophisticated, classy, black and white style that I have chosen for my brand. Each candle reflects not only the craftsmanship, quality and dedication cultivated at San Patrignano but also the resilience and motivation that defines my personal odyssey. The scents and warmth of these candles embody the spirit of renewal and hope that I found during my time abroad.
Nera Luxury Candles is a testament to the transformative power of overcoming adversity. Each candle is handcrafted with intention, a reminder that even in the darkest moments, there is always a path to light.
With Nera, you are not just acquiring a candle; you are participating in a narrative of personal triumph and Scottish resilience. May these candles illuminate your space with the essence of hope, strength, and the unwavering spirit that defines our journey.
Thank you for being part of this illuminating chapter. Together, let’s spread the light, one candle at a time.
With gratitude,
Ross
Founder, Nera Luxury Candles
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